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Thursday, September 6, 2012

Month One

Asante Miles was one month old on Sunday! He is so perfect, but of course I am bias.  For the most part he sleeps in his crib for every nap, and at night.  He sleeps around 3 and a half hours between feedings.  Some nights we get lucky and he sleeps 4+ hours!  Asante has also starting to have more awake and happy time.  He loves hanging out on his ocean play mat, watching the octopus, kicking the whale, and listening to the music.  Of course, he also gets to spend time with Daddy in the man cave.  I'm not sure what they do, because I'm technically not allowed in.  I'm sure there will be many years of wonderful father-son time spent in there :-) 
One month old :-)
Family Photo
Asante hanging out on his play mat
Not sure how he feels about the bumbo :-)
Asante's one month check-up on the 4th of September. Dr. Cosgrove said he is doing great! He now weighs 8lbs, 14.5oz and is 21.5in long. Asante got his second HepB shot, needless to say, he did not like it! Thankfully he is a tough little guy, and only cried for a minute.  
Asante showing us how he felt about getting a shot at his check-up!
We have had a very busy month, with lots of visitors! The Janes gang came to visit the weekend of the 24th.  This included Gran, Great Gramsy, Aunt Ang, Uncle Eric, Aunt Kacy and Kacy's parents, Kathy and Kelly.  It was the first time Asante met his Uncle Eric and Aunt Kacy.  He was totally spoiled, and I don't think was put down one time :-)  The following weekend Grammy, and Aunt Tamara came.  Tamara was here Thursday to Tuesday and Grammy was here Friday to Monday. We had a wonderful time with everyone.  Asante is such a lucky boy to have so many people to love on him! 
Asante with Uncle Eric
Asante and Aunt Kacy
My 25th birthday was also this month.  We celebrated at the Cheesecake Factory when my family was in town.  And the again on my actual birthday; we went shopping and got pedicures with Aunt Tamara.
Celebrating my birthday with a Flying Gorilla at the Cheesecake Factory
Getting pedicures on my birthday

Sunday, August 12, 2012

Lets back up

Since Asante came as a surprise, two weeks early, I didn't have a change to post these pictures :-)
Cake for the baby shower in Indiana
Games at the shower
Daddy and God-Father working on Asante's Fan
Daddy painting a basketball on Asante's wall

At Home with Asante

We finally left the hospital Saturday night around 11:30pm.  We could not wait to get home; we had been at the hospital for WAY too long!!!  The first week went really well, besides the lack of sleep.  I am so lucky to have an amazing husband, he has been so helpful! I have no idea what I would do with out him!!
Koda checking out his baby brother
Asante in his crib… he is soooo tiny!
Celebrating Asante!
Heading to the hospital
Asante's bilirubin levels were high upon leaving the hospital so we had to go back Sunday, and Monday to get them checked again. They were still high on Monday, but going down, so we didn't need to do any thing further.  
First bath at home
Hanging out with Daddy
Loving on my baby
Going to his one week Check up - August 8th

Picture Post

Here are a bunch of pictures to balance out the last post! 
Enjoy :-)
Waiting in triage
Last belly picture - 37 weeks, 6 days
Mommy and Daddy in the delivery room Wednesday morning
Asante finally arrived Thursday, August 2nd, 10:01pm
Gran, Great Grams and Grammy seeing Asante for the first time
Proud Daddy
Talking with Doctor Martin about how she saved my life
Daddy giving Asante his first bath
Washing his hair
Clean baby :-)
Toasting our beautiful baby boy…. I toasted with water :-)
Mama's Boy
Grammy and Asante
Gran and Asante
Auntie Ang and Asante
Auntie Tamara and Asante
Great Grams with Asante
Mommy, Asante, Auntie Ang and Gran
Four Generations :-)

The Wente's with Asante
Asante with the blanket Great Grams made him
Getting ready to go home! 
Asante's first car ride

Big Surprise, Little Guy

We made it to 37 weeks, 6 days…. and then surprise my water breaks! Let me start from the beginning… 

Wednesday morning I get up, like any other day, to get ready for work. Shower, get dressed, eat breakfast, do my make up.  Then the day becomes very different. While finishing my make-up I feel like I suddenly need to use the bathroom, I don't think much of it, because for the last nine months I've been needing to go pretty often, and out of no where.  This is when I lost my mucus-plug.  We had a doctor's appointment on Tuesday and I talked to my doctor about how I thought I might be losing it, she said it was no big deal, and didn't really mean anything.  Well in my case, it sure meant something! I go downstairs to leave for work, and as I sit down in my car, my water breaks! I run back upstairs and wake up Amar! This was at 7:25am.  We started making calls.  I called my doctor and had to wait a while to hear back from them.  So in the mean time we called work and our families.  When we finally heard back from the doctor we headed to the hospital, around 8:30am.  Once at the hospital, they had us go to triage.  I was hooked up to monitors to check my heart, babies heart and contractions.  Then they did a test to make sure my water had really ruptured, as if I was just peeing on myself :-) Once this test came back positive they put us in our delivery room.  It is now around 10am.  Upon arriving at the hospital I was not dilated at all, nor effaced.  I had a lot of work to do, so we started walking, in circles, so boring! Shortly after we started walking my contractions started.  They were pretty mild and just felt like period cramps.  Fast forward a few hours, I was only dilated to about a 2, and the pain was starting to get pretty intense.  I decided to get nubain and pheneragan to help deal with the pain.  This lasted about 2 hours and I was able to rest, which was helpful! The second time I got this medicine was around 2am Thursday morning.  Again I was able to sleep, however this time it also stopped my contractions.  When I woke up Thursday morning I started walking again to get my contractions going.  At 6am I was only dilated to a 3-ish, so we decided it was time for pitocin.  We had held off on this because I did not want to have an epidural and pitocin makes contractions pretty strong.  At 3pm Thursday I had only progressed to about a 4-5 and the contractions were getting unbearable, especially since they weren't doing much.  The head anesthesiologist for the hospital was on call, and he came in and talked to me before placing my epidural.  He made me feel so much better about getting one, and I am beyond thankful that I did! From there my labor started to pick up, and I felt great! By 9:15pm I was completely dilated, and it was time to start pushing.  I pushed for a little less than an hour, it would have been much shorter but my contractions were about 5 minutes apart, so we had to wait between them :-( Asante was born at 10:01pm, and he was perfect!

Then the real fun begins! The nurses put Asante on my chest and Amar cut the umbilical cord.  The nurses then take Asante to weigh him and clean him off before I try nursing.  All while my doctor is trying to deliver my placenta.  She is having a little bit of a hard time, and is saying that it doesn't want to come out.  All of a sudden she starts saying "oh sh*t, OH SH*T!" and starts yelling for the nurses to get all this stuff.  I had no idea what was going on, but could tell it wasn't good! Amar came right to my side and held my hand, but like myself, had no idea what was happening.  Doctor Martin called for the anesthesiologist to come in and for them to start pitocin again.  Unfortunately for my hand, my IV had come out, so as they started the piton again, my hand started swelling and hurting extremely bad! They had to place a new emergency IV, not fun! So back to Doctor Martin, she has one whole arm in my who-ha and the other pressing on and massaging on my stomach…. why you ask?!? Well because as my placenta is being delivered, it has not fully unattached from my uterus and is pulling it in-side-out.  Doctor Martin was amazing, and gets it turned back right-side-out before anything terrible happens.  All of this happened in about 5 minutes.  Scariest 5 minutes of my life!

When the uterus turns in-side-out it can cause real problems, such as hemorrhaging.  If the uterus does not get turned back right away it may need emergency surgery to correct it, and if that doesn't work the whole thing has to be removed.  Like I said, Doctor Martin was amazing, and she saved my life!

So once all that drama was over, I was able to hold my baby boy again! He is totally worth the wait, all the pain and every bit of drama we went through! He is perfect :-)

Saturday, June 30, 2012

32 Weeks

This has been a big week! I am still feeling great, but starting to be a little uncomfortable, or at least I'm making Little Asante uncomfortable.  He sure lets me know if I'm smashing him and he wants me to move!  I'm starting to recognize body parts also, like when he stretches out his little legs :-) The week started with our first Lamaze class on Thursday.  It was pretty good, and I think we are going to learn a lot of interesting stuff. The class is Thursday nights 6:30 to 9 for 5 weeks.  Friday we had another doctor's appointment, and everything is still looking great.  Our doctor told us he is already in the head down position, such a good boy! I was also checked for dilation and effacement to make sure I was ok to fly.  Thankfully I was, and had my doctor's note in hand at the airport.  We headed to Kansas Sunday morning for our first baby shower.  It was a wonderful shower, hosted by my aunts. There were so many people there, and it was really great to see everyone! We got some awesome stuff!  Monday we took maternity photos with Angela, and she had them online for us to view within a few days.  They turned out great; Angela does such an amazing job! 

Daddy, Grammy, Grandma and Mommy at the shower
Grandma, Mommy and Great-Grams

Carseat installed in Daddy's car (Gift from my Mom)
Maternity Photos

Thursday, May 24, 2012

Well needless to say I haven't posted in a while! Ha that's funny... by in a while I mean almost 6 months.  I am going to keep this brief, and just start over with current updates.

Here is a list of things that have happened in the last 6 months.
  1. We found out we were pregnant in December (probably the biggest news)
  2. We closed on our house also in December
  3. I stayed in Kansas while Amar was in Indiana... it was one of the hardest things I've had to do.  I know being pregnant did not help matters either
  4. We had many doctors appointments... including baby's heart beat, sonogram, found out we were having a BOY! Asante Miles Scott
  5. Lots of travel between Kansas and Indiana for both of us!
  6. Baby Asante and I finally joined Amar in Indiana at the end of March
  7. Amar sold his first home.... SOOO exciting!!
  8. I started a new job in Indianaplois at the end of May
And that is where we are :-) Hopefully I will keep up with the blog... things are going to get pretty crazy around our house soon.  Only 84 days until Asante's debut!